2006年3月21日 星期二

角度


喬宏(演“女人四十”中蕭芳芳的家翁)還未去世之前,曾與他在吉隆坡有一段訪問,訪問的內容有關于他對生命和宗教,以及電影的看法。

讓我最深刻的其中一段內容,是他告訴我看事情的角度;當時,我和他面對面訪問,他說,看事情必須要有多個角度,就好像我對著他時,我看得到他背后的一切,若他自己不愿轉頭一瞥,就不會知道背后有什麼,和發生什麼事情。

這一段話一直讓我銘記至今,我一直警戒自己,要多方面去瞭解一個人或一件事情,僅是從自己所知道,或是所看見和聽見的來衡量,未必做準。

許多事情都是這樣,個人的主觀想法往往限制了自己的視野,沒有從多角度去看,就仿彿是瞎子摸像,摸到什麼就以為是什麼。

但是,人總是對自己所學所看到的充滿信心,以為這些就是衡量事情的標準,任何對與錯之間,都在于一己之念,幾乎是每一個人都會有對事情的盲點,但又會有多少個人願意去多角度看事情呢?

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  4. Please write anything else!

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  23. C++ should have been called B

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  24. When there's a will, I want to be in it.

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  25. Build a watch in 179 easy steps - by C. Forsberg.

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  29. A lot of people mistake a short memory for a clear conscience.

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  30. What is a free gift ? Aren't all gifts free?

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  31. actually, that's brilliant. Thank you. I'm going to pass that on to a couple of people.

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  32. When there's a will, I want to be in it.

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  33. actually, that's brilliant. Thank you. I'm going to pass that on to a couple of people.

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  35. Give me ambiguity or give me something else.

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  36. Give me ambiguity or give me something else.

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  37. When there's a will, I want to be in it.

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  38. When there's a will, I want to be in it.

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  39. Oops. My brain just hit a bad sector.

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  40. What is a free gift ? Aren't all gifts free?

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  41. Oops. My brain just hit a bad sector.

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  43. Build a watch in 179 easy steps - by C. Forsberg.

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  44. A flashlight is a case for holding dead batteries.

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  45. Save the whales, collect the whole set

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